Chat with Flirts

NiteFlirt is now more accessible and more discreet than ever with the introduction of chat. With chat, you can connect with your favorite Flirts anytime anywhere.

Chat is $0.69 per volley. What's a volley? A volley is a Flirt's first response within 24 hours of your last message. This simple rule makes everything fair, and it's much better than per message or per minute approaches. When you chat, the "NF" indicator shows when a volley has been exchanged.


To enroll, click on Chat in the NiteFlirt header. Enter the US/Canadian mobile phone number you want your Chat Alerts sent to, and we'll text you a verification code. You'll only have to verify your number once, and as always, no one will ever see your actual phone number.

Like all communications on NiteFlirt, we never reveal your personal information to others, and this includes Chat! We even remove all personally identifying information (Exif data) from photos, so it's safe to exchange photos via Chat.


Chat Alerts

You can turn Chat Alerts on or off, set quiet hours, and edit your verified number in the My Personal Info section of My Account. To turn Chat Alerts off, select "Off - No chat alerts" from the "Text me at:" drop-down menu. Use the radio button to select whether Chat Alert quiet hours should be observed, and click "Edit quiet hours" to set them!


Chat Alerts are only sent to your phone via SMS if you haven't been active on your NiteFlirt account for 30 minutes or more. This is so that you're not bothered with text alerts when you’re active on the site — it would be annoying, since you’re already there! Text alerts should stop about a minute after you reply to a message, either via our mobile site on your phone or the desktop site. 



Once you've enrolled in Chat, click on the Chat icon in the NiteFlirt header to access your chats and to browse for Flirts who offer Chat. If your favorite Flirts offer Chat, they will have a Chat tab on their Flirt Profile page.


Flirts who are currently online will have an indicator on their Chat Card and, for existing chats, in your Chat list.



Managing Chats

View and manage your Chats by clicking Chat in the NiteFlirt header.

To send a Tribute, click on the NF-Sprites-Tribute.jpg icon. You'll be able to send the Tribute without even leaving the Chat window! Please note sending a Tribute in Chat will generate a chat message notification which will count as a message, and if the Flirt replies to it, you will be charged a volley.

To place a call, click on the NF-Sprites-Call.jpg icon. You'll be taken to the Flirt's phone listings so that you can select which one you want to call.

To close a Chat, go to the NF-Sprites-Gear.jpg icon and select Close. The closed chat will no longer show in your Chat list and it will remain closed until you send a new message to the Flirt. To send a new message, just click the Chat tab on the Flirt's Profile or Listing page.


You can also just delete an individual message or photo within a Chat if you no longer want it to be visible. Just click the message/photo you want to remove and then select the NF-Sprites-Trash.jpg icon. The message or photo will be removed from your side of the Chat's history. Deleting messages and photos is permanent -- they cannot be restored.


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